Sunday, August 17, 2008

9 Tips Keep In Attachment (Loyalty)

It's so hard to keep our faith for our beloved. That so much things to do to stay in happiness relationship (build on loyalty). Love is main capital or basic capital for husband and wife. But just with love purely, the relation will never growing up. You must have loyal commitment to your love. So, the love will durable along the time.

How to keep your faith or loyalty to your beloved..?

1. Selfless

The thing you must realize to love your beloved is "ingenuously giving". Love is sincerity heart's. It's not proper for your self-seeking. For example, don't you ever "loving in" then will get a profound interest back. Or you wish your beloved will be never make a mistake. All of that just hurt yourself. Remember, to love, it's mean "only giving" and don't ever expect "giving it back". Coz, you will be loved when you are loving in sincerity. Expecting ? From The Selfless, you will keep in faith or loyalty. And you would absolutely bring a happiness for your beloved.


2. Don't Too Much Demanded

Don't desecrate your heart and love with so many demanding. In the other way, you must learn always give the best with your love for another person, including your beloved one. Only with the right love, all of it could be materialized. In this step, it will bring you to stay in faith and loyalty. Exactly, you will win the positive result for the relation.
Too much demanding just bring you in the loaves and fishes at the end without maturely relationship. Moreover, you might be broke your relationship. Don't you know when it all happened your faith and loyal would be fade away? Don't too much demanding. In order that, you will keep in faith and loyal to your love and your relationship both.


3. Don't Being Afraid Disappointed

It might be hard to do. Usually, avoid from being disappointed and always want to be happy. That's no room in they heart to feel disappointed or dolour. Whereas, life have so many sides for us to inspired. Because of that, if you want keep in faith and loyal to your love, don't be affraid to disappointed..!! Not at all the personality growth come from success or happiness. Sometimes, you must feel being disappointed effect from other person, include your beloved one. It's very possible that always be a misunderstanding, quarrel or tiff and definitely will make your heart break. But, don't be afraid. You could maturing yourself from the flesh wounds like this.
If you able to face the hard circumstances, you will keep in faith to your beloved. The Love that will confort you from the wound's scratch. The love that will whooping on your life get up from the disappointment. So, don't daub your love when you are disappointing. Therefore, you will stay in loyalty to your love. This loyalty will toughening your love relation with your beloved.


4. Be A Good Consoler

The love's place is heart. When the heart broken, a certain person need an act of entertainment. So when your beloved heart broken, comfort them. Your love will actuating self to comfort and corroborate for your beloved.
All of that you can make it, if you have a crown of loyalty. You will never be a good consoler if your love not supplied with "loyalty when the sorrow ruled the roost". So, learn be a good consoler for your beloved. Start with love yourself in the right way and keep in a loyalty with your love. Believe it, your love relation will be in more very close or intimated in the act of entertainment circumstances.


5. Understand With All Your Heart


Human being doesn't always in easy condition. Your beloved one might be in hard condition and it's hard for you to understand it either. Might be they are in frustration condition, hopeless or failed. Understand them with all your heart, don't you instead make more worst they heart. For example, you complain why they failed or blame them. Out of this way.
Only when you keep your love faithful in loyalty, you would be accept and understand your beloved heart condition. With loyalty way, you will inspiring your beloved as soon as possible to rise up from the frustration. Everything, you can only do with your love, isn't it? Don't ever you leave your love even just a second, stay in your loyalty. That so. your beloved will more loving you because only you the comforter at the worst circumstances for your beloved.


6. Be Grateful For What Was Happened

Don't be grouching and curse out if you in failed, sorrow, or disappointed. Be grateful for every single days of your colorful life's experience . Be grateful for all was happened that make you growth up.
In this way, you will stay in loyalty to your love. Your confusion never make your soul small. In fact, you will more stronger to face everything happened. So, keep stay in your loyalty of love with gratitude for your life's experience. From here your relation will more as firm as a rock.


7. Be Autonomous In Mind And Action

The autonomy doesn't mean you must think yourself without see the another person. The autonomy mind and action mean sets out to be confidence to face for all what would happened. Thereby, you doesn't to wait for your beloved to do, when you must make a decision for an important moment. The autonomy will make you stay in faith and loyal to your beloved and yourself. You will more keep in faithfully that your love will bring a power in self to the positive thing at the sight of love and your relation.
Had a bast of autonomy in mind and action, so as to your loyalty of love will keep in growth. The relation of love will more stronger and autonomy.


8. Strength Hopefully

Love without hope is empty. Life never move on without hope as same as never focus to a better life. You will never can add love meaning bit by bit to materialize it. So, have a hope and keep struggle to reach out and to materialize it.
Thereby, you will stay in loyalty to your love; your hope is the motivator. Without a loyalty in love, you will never reach out your hopes, especially live in full affection and love with your beloved. So, always strength on and hopefully for better life in love and your life both.


9. Unite The Word And The Action

Love is more than words. Don't just say with a beautiful word. Unite the word and the action. So, the love's meaning will felt together with your beloved. The combination will be an evidence that you stay in a loyalty on your love. This loyalty make your relation together always in trust and honest. All because of you always loyalty and consistent to your word and act. Thereby, you both together will enjoy the loyalty with all your heart. Without dread for a falsehood what would happened.


Motivation Stories

* How The Brain Works
* Blessing In Disguise
* The Power Of Love
* Do Not Fear, Do Not Regret
* Positive and Negative Words
* Footprints In Sand
* Wealth Success and Love
* Mom's Love
* Love Love Love Love
* Run Till The Finish Line

Poems

* To Be Your Nails at Your Fingers
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