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Wednesday, December 31, 2008

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For blogger its good for you to increase your visitors, especially for who sales or have a marketing blog or website. And this AtomicBlogging.com tell you how and lead on step by step to reach the visitors.

I like it. Thanks a lot AtomicBlogging.com.

And Happy New Years for All. Count down to the year of harvest time. Happy New Year.

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Monday, December 29, 2008

Woman Who Is Better Than 7 Men


"...for your daughter-in-law who loves you, who is better to you than seven sons, has borne him."
(Ruth 4:15)


Woman who is better than seven sons, WOW,
..what kind of woman that have a privileged and great valuable than seven sons? In several nation and culture, the sons are more better valuable than the daughters.

This is admirable woman dedicated for Ruth a Moab's Woman (Moab country is the foreign nation for Israel).
Certainly, she is a special woman and the one of the two holy books with woman's name from The Bible. And undeniably, her name was registered in the decendants of King David. Ruth is King David's grand-grandmother. So, how special is she? The Bible wrote down her peculiarity:


1. Loyal Heart

Ruth have a loyal heart to her mother-in-law, Naomi. She was chose live with her mother-in-law although she have the right and good reasons come home to her nation. Her loyal heart based on her loyal heart to The God of Israel. The loyalty heart to the God made her still in attachment with Naomi (Ruth 1:16-17). Although there is no reasons for her to keep in loyalty, seeing that is impossible for Naomi born a son for Ruth to get married. If impossible, illogical for her to wait the son growth up (Jewish manner), but she keep in her loyalty.
The future so dark for these two widows, but Ruth steeling her mother-in-law heart's with her faithful till die. Let see what the possibilities for Ruth when she back home to her parent in Moab. She maybe get married again, and if she get a rich man she might be never underprivileged or if she live with her parent she shouldn't have thinking about the food. Ruth forget everything, seems like Moses stories that consent live the luxurious of the Pharaoh's kingdom.

Does we have a loyal heart like Ruth? Keep in loyalty to God in every situation, every hard ways, problems and hopeless.


2. Work Hard

Back home to Bethlehem without the man as a leader for the family and life made Naomi and Ruth life are so hard. Maybe the living house they was live about 10 years could be broken and the field either. There is no choises for Ruth except gleaned in a field after the reapers, live in the people's mercy. But everything there is no coincedenced, God Planned so beautiful for Naomi and Ruth.


3. Do Good Think

What Ruth has did, especially her loyalty to her mother-in-law have being the discussion in Israel, they praise her. And the news heard by Boaz too. Her loyalty borned love and mercy for the people around.


4. Sacred Life

Boaz adored Ruth because she didn't chasing the young men. In her status as a widow is so possible for to get married again, but she didn't chase her desire and still live in a holy life, obeyed The Law of God and the being rules, and learned expecting with loyalty. Her holy life made she more beautiful in Boaz's eyes.


5. Loyal Expectation / Loyal Prayers

Like her mother-in-law adviced, Ruth keep in her loyalty wait for Boaz act's. Expecting or waiting is similary with the prayers. When Ruth stay on her pray, the anwers come right in time. When we lift up our hand, God hand's will turn down to help.

For the woman who learning from the Ruth, learn to her always. Cause God always make you special in HIS Eyes. And absoulutely always in the happy ending. :) GBU.
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Wednesday, December 24, 2008

How The Brain Works

If your eyes follow the movement of the rotating pink dot, you will only see one color, pink.

If you stare at the black "+" in the center, the moving dot turns to green.

Now, concentrate on the black "+" in the center of the picture. After a short period of time, all the pink dots will slowly disappear, and you will only see a green dot rotating. If you're lucky! (^-^)V



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It's amazing how our brain works. There really is no green dot, and the pink ones really don't disappear. This should be proof enough, we don't always see what we think we see.

Sometimes when we find the problems or the obstacles, it seems so hard and difficult, And sometimes in our mind always thinking: "Why it's happened to me? Why me? Why this life is hard? (at the other times, if we received all the gifts, blast, the great moment and always in grateful, we will never say "WHY was it happened to me!").

Sad or happy, bless or curse, problem or not, luck or unluck, big or little, hard or easy, etc.. Doesn't it just the way we look?

All the circumstances and all what happened to us sometimes always be the same, but how we look at and how we face on, for all the happening, always make the difference things. Everything just in our mind, only in our brain. Everything always be good if we always looks in a posivitive way.

What a good lesson for life?


Motivation Stories

* Blessing In Disguise
* The Power Of Love
* Do Not Fear, Do Not Regret
* Positive and Negative Words
* 9 Tips Keep In Attachment Loyalty
* Footprints In Sand
* Wealth Success and Love
* Mom's Love
* Love Love Love Love
* Run Till The Finish Line

Poems

* To Be Your Nails at Your Fingers
* O Girls
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Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Planning Wedding Information

A wedding is the ceremony in which two people are united in marriage. Wedding traditions and customs vary greatly between cultures, ethnic groups, religions, countries, and social classes. Most wedding ceremonies involve an exchange of wedding vows by the couple, presentation of a ring or rings, and a public proclamation of marriage by an authority figure or religious leader. Special wedding garments are often worn, and the ceremony is followed by a wedding reception. Music, poetry, prayer or readings from Scripture may also be incorporated in the ceremony.

For the bride, groom and parents of the engaged couple, weddings are a very important day. In order to make the special event very memorable, all of the wedding planning details and budget starting from the invitations, to the wedding ceremony and reception need to be planned correctly.

Planning a wedding is exciting, but also can be stressful. You need patience and creativity to plan the wedding day the way you want. Much of the wedding tips, ideas and advice here will help you understand tasks and elements of that very special day.

It's packed with helpful information wedding planing and useful worksheets to help stay on top of your wedding planning:

1. Envision your wedding from beginning to end. Where and when have you dreamed the wedding would take place? How formal would you like the event to be? What will the wedding party wear? What kind of food would you like to serve?

2. Pick a date.

3. Set a budget–—one that is functional and provides for some flexibility. Here is where you must combine fantasy with practicality.

4. Ask friends and family to recommend a reputable jeweler. Order your engagement and/or wedding rings.

5. Book the wedding and reception sites.

6. Meet with the officiant of your wedding. Now is the time to be clear about rules and restrictions regarding the ceremony and ceremony site.

7. Select your wedding attendants–—your wedding party can be as big or small as you like.

8. Choose a dress and wedding attire for the rest of the wedding party.

9. Make a guest list. You may have to compromise on the number of guests if your budget is limited.

10. Plan your pre-wedding parties, ceremony, reception and honeymoon–—consider menus, decorations, favors and music.

11. Interview and hire vendors: wedding coordinator, photographer, video professional, caterer, florist and entertainment.

12. Check state requirements for obtaining a marriage license, and find out how long the license will remain valid.

13. Take care of the rest of the paperwork, from ordering invitations to signing up with gift registries.





Source:

How to Plan a Wedding | www.eHow.com

Wedding Planning, Ideas & Etiquette | Bridal Guide Magazine

Wedding Planning Guide - Free Wedding Planner
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Friday, December 19, 2008

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Friday, November 28, 2008

Blessing in Disguise


Fan Shi Gan Ji



Fan Shi Gan Ji... whatever happened be thankful.


Once in a kingdom, there lived a king whose passion was hunting. One day accompanied by his soldiers and trusted companions he went to the woods for a hunt. And carelessly, due to an accident, his own sharp knife cut off his little finger The king was terribly him up but still the king was very much sad.

Not knowing what else to say, the counselor finally said, "Your Higness, Fan Shi Gan Ji... Whatever happened you need to thankful."

Upon hearing such a comment, the king was in rage. "What a comment! I had an accident, and instead of counseling, he asked me to be thankful!" And thus sentenced the counselor into a three-year jail.

Days passed by. The loss of his lttle finger didn't prevent the king from doing hi hunting passion. One day, the king with his new appointed counselor, and a crowd of soldiers went for another hunting. Unexpectedly, while he was in the middle of the forest, the king and the counselor suddenly were separated from the rest of the group. Suddenly a clan of barbaric tribe caught them. Both of them were caught, and brought along to be sacrificed to the tribe's Gods.

Before the ceremony began, both the king and the counselor were bathed. And when it was ithe turn for the king, they noticed that one of his small fingers was cut off. And due to this "invalid" body, the king wasn't qualified dumped him and released by the primitive people. And instead, the new counselor was offered to the Gods.

With a great effort, the king finally found his way back to the palace. As soon as he arrived there, he straightway ordered his old counselor to be released at once.

"My Counselor,
I am very thankful to you. Your advice has been proven right all along. Fan Shi Gan Ji... Because of mu cut-off little finger, I can safely be back today..." And then he retold the whole incident.

After hearing the king's story, with such a rush the counselor bowed down and said, "Thank you Your Majesty. I am also very thankful that you have put me in jail unless it might have been me to be sacrificed to the Gods."

*******


The story above teaches us such a basic simple value, the power of gratitude upon receiving whatever comes our ways; when we are at condition of progress and success we need to be thankful as well as at the lowest point of our spirit. In this life process, not everything works out smoothly or easily as we expect. Sometimes we are faced with life's real challenges such as misunderstanding, failure, trickery, slander, sickness, earthquake, and all sorts of unavoidable misfortunes.

Human beings with their remarkable abilities to think, and the support of technologies as well as their sensible anticipation, in all times try their best to minimize the predicted failures, danger or life's threatening disaster. But the truth is not all things we can control. There is an 'X' area which is beyond our reach. This only God The Almighty with His own power and grace can control.

As a being with sense of humanity, we all try our best to avoid any foresight misfortunes that might befall unto us. But if at the end of the day all of these misfit incidents sill fully as God's will. When we have big heart that can accept whatever comes and be thankful to the good or bad things happen, our sufferings may be felt m such less. And for sure, there is always a meaning behind all sufferings. Blessing in disguise that you can count on.

"When we succeed, we are thankful.
When we fail, we are also thankful.
The true happiness and wealth are
in the thankful attitude itself."

By Andrie Wongso

From The Book :
15 Wisdom & Success
Classical Motivation Stories

Motivation Stories

* How The Brain Works
* The Power Of Love
* Do Not Fear, Do Not Regret
* Positive and Negative Words
* 9 Tips Keep In Attachment Loyalty
* Footprints In Sand
* Wealth Success and Love
* Mom's Love
* Love Love Love Love
* Run Till The Finish Line

Poems

* To Be Your Nails at Your Fingers
* O Girls
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The Power of Love


Ai De Li Liang


As the story goes, a young beautiful woman was just married a man she love dearly. After the marriage, this woman lived together with her mother-in-law. Then, there were so many mishaps and unfitting behaviors and views between the two ladies in the house. The mother-in-law somehow always managed to find flaws in almost everything that her daughter-in-law did. Sharp comments, criticisms and all sorts of sarcasms were constantly flowing everyday. Unfortunately, the husband could not do much to improve the situation.

The daughter-in-law seemed unable to sustain her anger anymore. Day to day,taking revenge was poisoning her mind and thoughts. And thus she went to look for his father's best friend who was a medicine seller. She told him all about her sadness and grieves in tears, "An that's why uncle you have to help me in this case, please prescribe a strong dose of poison so that I can have my revenge towards my mother-in-law." After a careful thinking, finally the uncle smiled wisely and answered, "I will give you the poisonous powder under one condition that you will do exactly as I say." The woman agreed.

And then the uncle gave her a full pocket of powder. "My dear, to get rid of your mother-in-law, don't use a quick reactive poison. People around you will be very suspicious of her sudden dying. They will directly be able to point their fingers to you. Therefore, I am giving you a slow reactive your mom's meals. And remember, you have to cook the meal yourself," said the medicine seller.

Before she left, the medicine seller added up, "Just to make sure that people will not be suspicious later on, you need to treat your mother-in-law better in days to come, by doing so people will not raise any questions about her death. Treat her with love, respect and show yur big heart by not arguing, just giving in to her. Treat your mother-in-law as if she were your own mother."

With such a happier light heart, the woman went home, she obeyed and did whatever the uncle said. Everyday, she spoilt her mother-in-law by cooking all her favorite dishes and served her with all respect and compassion. Without realizing four months had passed, and a big change took place. Being treated with such respect and affection, the mother-in-law was touched and changed her behavior towards her. Things turned around, she started to treat her daughter-in-law as her own one and loved her more and more each day. In the presence of her friends, she complimented and spoke highly of her daughter-in-law's nobility and compassion.

Seeing the changes in her mother-in-law's, abruptly the daughter rushed to see the uncle. "Please uncle, give me the antidote to the poison that you gave me sometime ago. After doing what you told me, now my mother-in-law has treated me so well and full of love. I also start loving her, I don't want her die from the poison that I gavve her everyday."

The just smiled and answered, "My dear, don't worry. The powder that I gave you was not poison at all. It actually was tonic to enhance body strength instead." She was dumb founded. "So the real poison actually is what dwells in your head, your attitudes towards your mother-in-law. And now all of those poisons have been wiped away by love and affection that you have showered her."

*******

The story above has taught us of how incredible the power of love Ai De Li Liang or the power of affection and tender love care Guan Xin De Li Liang can be.
Love and affection bring about care, sincerity, and willingness to sacrifice for the greater good. Love and affection can release us from the strong grip of misunderstanding, bring down the wall off coldness, soften the stubbornness and mellow down hatreds. Love and affection invite peace and bring differences into a good harmony. If all of use are willing to give love andaffection towards peole around us day by day, then life is worth living for.


"Love and attention is power!
If all of us are willing to share love
and attention towards people around us,
then life will happier and
more meaningful."


By Andrie Wongso

From The Book :
15 Wisdom & Success
Classical Motivation Stories


Motivation Stories

* How The Brain Works
* Blessing In Disguise
* Do Not Fear, Do Not Regret
* Positive and Negative Words
* 9 Tips Keep In Attachment Loyalty
* Footprints In Sand
* Wealth Success and Love
* Mom's Love
* Love Love Love Love
* Run Till The Finish Line

Poems

* To Be Your Nails at Your Fingers
* O Girls
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Thursday, November 27, 2008

German Online Personals

Maybe your heart come to German

Maybe your soulmate stay in German

Maybe your wonderful time and life touch in German

Maybe your beloved one found in German

Come on find your personal online in here


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Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Carlsberg football web-TV-channel partofthegame.tv






www.partofthegame.tv


Carlsberg launches Web-TV channel about football and fan life
Recently Carlsberg Brewery launched a football web-TV-channel partofthegame.tv
They launched 5 channels showing all aspects about football from the classic football matches to life as a fan.

Be sure not to miss the video clips about football funnies and rituals from the Football Magic channel.

come join for every fans who love football, it's the time for us to be fun and a have a good treat fro the fans. Don't miss it. Hurry up to part of it. Come on.. come on...
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Sunday, November 2, 2008

Free Mastercard from Payoneer




Payoneer Inc Mastercard's use for shopping or to withdraw the cash money from ATM with mastercard's logo. And what is more for internet's payment if you don't want be paid by check and other else. And if you make a Paypal account, it can use to verify too.

You can get this card just for free and easy, what you only to do just register yourself to the FriendFinder, a site like Friendster. Its an easy way, you only following and join the affiliate. One of the program that suppor The Payoneer Inc is FriendFinder.

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* Zip/Postacl code : empty it if you not from US (US only)

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* Then click Get Your Prepaid Mastercard@ Now!





After you click it you must fill the payoneer debit card form. There is 3 steps to fill it:





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Fill your data in the Payoneer form (Step I). Then Click Step II button, fill your data. In the Step III you fill your country ID card at the form.





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Then for the last you click Finish.





* The Payoneer Inc will send you the mastercard between 20 - 30 days.When the debit card arrived, then active it and follow the steps from the letter that sent with your card. It's so easy right?

* Check your email, there is you got your username and password for the affiliate. Login for a member and Login for an Affiliate is different.

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Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Do Not Fear -- Do Not Regret (Bu Yao Pa, Bu Hou Hui)


Once upon a time, in a remote village, lived a young man who had a wish to travel down town to have a better life. Upon leaving, he encountered fear, worry, and doubt. To encourage his intention to leave the village, he went to see one of the elderly figures in the village, both to say goodbye and seek for guidance. Having heart his intention, the elderly happily said, "My son, this life's secret only consists of six words. And today I will only give u half of them." And then he wrote down three words.

Bu Yao Pa, meaning DO NOT FEAR!!

Time, passed quickly, 30 years had passed. The young man had come down with the ups and downs of life. By having these 3 wise words "DO NOT FEAR", he faced all magnificent mentality, he did change his destiny. Then he turned into one of the most successful and honorable citizens in the country.

Yet, with all the success he already had, he still felt there was something imperfect and he come down to regret why he could not solve it. He tried hard to work it out, but his mind got even more messed up and unfocused. In the doubtful condition,
he remembered the elderly who had given him three words. "Didn't he still have the rest of the three words that he promised to give out to me?"

And then he decided to go back to his village to see the elderly man to ask for the remaining three words. Unfortunately, as he got there he found the wise man had passed away. However, there was a letter addressed to him. Apparently the old man had predicted that one day he would come back. He ripped the letter as fast as he could and there were the rest of the three words that he was looking there:

Bu Hou Hui, meaning DO NOT REGRET!!!

As soon as he saw those words, spontaneously all the regrets that had been hovering him disappeared. He felt very relieved and happy immediately.

Wise readers,
What powerful and meaningful six words we ever have, DO NOT FEAR and DO NOT REGRET. Without any exclusion, all of us, you and I, need these six wise words. If we wish to create a better life, change our hopes into realities, we need the first three words, BU YAO PA, do not fear. They carry a motivational spirit that can energize us to act, no fear to have a high dream, no fear to try and start! No fear to face challenges!! No fear to work hard! No fear to bear a big responsibility!!!
There are times when our hand effort does not meet our hopes. Obstacles and hindrances at times look as if they created to block our way. And our struggle can just come to a total failure. This can make us feel as it we were covered by unhappiness, disappointment and regret. At kind of stage, the next three wise words, BU HOU HUI, do not regret, can be the key to lift up our spirit again. Throw away negative thoughts. Regret will change anything on the contrary, it will only burden and block our steps forward.
Being able to accept the results of our struggles as they are is wise, but willing to bounce from our condition today is incredible!!! As long as we have fought and contributed our very best with all have within, no matter what the result is, the most important thing is the fact that the spirit to fight and struggle itself has its own success values!!!!!

DO NOT FEAR!!!!! DO NOT REGRET!!!!!!


"Don't be afraid to try!
Don't be afraid to start!
If you have fought your best,
whatever the result is,
the fighting spirit itself
has the success value in it!
Never regret!<


By Andrie Wongso

From The Book :
15 Wisdom & Success
Classical Motivation Stories

Motivation Stories

* How The Brain Works
* Blessing In Disguise
* The Power Of Love
* Positive and Negative Words
* 9 Tips Keep In Attachment Loyalty
* Footprints In Sand
* Wealth Success and Love
* Mom's Love
* Love Love Love Love
* Run Till The Finish Line

Poems

* To Be Your Nails at Your Fingers
* O Girls
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Wednesday, August 27, 2008

O, Girl

Look At The Mirror

O, Girl...
I'm sorry you are
If i always flirting on you

Now..
Look at the mirror..!!

You will understand
Why I always flirting on you.



If I Crazy On You

O, girl

If i crazy on you

So, drive me more crazy on you

Hoping that,
I always lives in the world

Everything about

Y-O-U


Motivation Stories

* How The Brain Works
* Blessing In Disguise
* The Power Of Love
* Do Not Fear, Do Not Regret
* Positive and Negative Words
* 9 Tips Keep In Attachment Loyalty
* Footprints In Sand
* Wealth Success and Love
* Mom's Love
* Love Love Love Love
* Run Till The Finish Line

Poems

* O Girls Read more/selengkapnya...

To Be Your Nails At Your Fingers



To Be Your Nails At Your Fingers

I am the nails at your fingers
That always adorn you


Although you break me up
I will still grow and grow

Although you cut me up
I always still grow and grow


Maybe..
Only one way to stop me..!!
Yes
Only in the one way

Root me up..!!

But if you did it
I knew..
I really knew it..!!

You only felt.....

IN PAIN


Motivation Stories

* How The Brain Works
* Blessing In Disguise
* The Power Of Love
* Do Not Fear, Do Not Regret
* Positive and Negative Words
* 9 Tips Keep In Attachment Loyalty
* Footprints In Sand
* Wealth Success and Love
* Mom's Love
* Love Love Love Love
* Run Till The Finish Line

Poems

* To Be Your Nails at Your Fingers
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Monday, August 25, 2008

Love Love Love Love



Love, almost people in the world knows it..

But if you can imagine, the world without love what would happened ?

This illustrated maybe can remind us about the love..

In the class, a group of students are writing a job about 7 wonder of the world. They write it one by one the the seven wonder of the world that they've learned from the geographic study. They began write from The Pyramid in Egypt till The Great Wall in China.In the mean time, it seem a student confused for the job.

The Teacher asking, "Any something problem and hard at the list?".

The kid said, "It's hard for me to choose seven from much The Wonders in this world".

The Teacher asking again, "What is it, kid?"

The Teacher silent a while, then he's surprised when he look at the long list of that kid. Like us that often forget the little wonders and miracles, either he is.

In the unbelievable list of the kid, writted, "Can See, Can Hear, Can Laugh, Can Smile, Can Feel, and Can Love" are the wonders and miracles.

LOVE is one of little miracles that we talk about.

Love is one of the biggest wonder little nature. The power of it tight us together, to build a happiness and peace.

Love endures long and is patient and kind; love never is envious nor boils over with jealousy, is not boastful or vainglorious, does not display itself haughtily.
It is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride); it is not rude (unmannerly) and does not act unbecomingly. Love (God's love in us) does not insist on its own rights or its own way, for it is not self-seeking; it is not touchy or fretful or resentful; it takes no account of the evil done to it [it pays no attention to a suffered wrong].
It does not rejoice at injustice and unrighteousness, but rejoices when right and truth prevail.
Love bears up under anything and everything that comes, is ever ready to believe the best of every person, its hopes are fadeless under all circumstances, and it endures everything [without weakening].
Love never fails [never fades out or becomes obsolete or comes to an end].

Love And Love...

So are you live in lovee..?


Motivation Stories

* How The Brain Works
* Blessing In Disguise
* The Power Of Love
* Do Not Fear, Do Not Regret
* Positive and Negative Words
* 9 Tips Keep In Attachment Loyalty
* Footprints In Sand
* Wealth Success and Love
* Mom's Love
* Run Till The Finish Line

Poems

* To Be Your Nails at Your Fingers
* O Girls Read more/selengkapnya...

Thursday, August 21, 2008

Mom's Love

A child come near to his mother who occupied in preparing a dinner. Then he give a paper to his mom. The mom take and read the paper.

HELP MOM FEE

Washed The Plates $1
Clean The Trash $0.5
Watched over my sister $2.5
Clean up $1.5
------------------------------------
Total $5.5

After read it, The mom smiled to her child, then she take a blank paper, write it and give it to her child.

RAISING YOU UP FEE

Nine month pregnant Free
Raise Free
Keep you every days Free
Mom's Love Free
Clean up your pampers Free

When the child read it, he fill with tears. He look at his mom with the heart's regret. He take the paper that he was gift to her mom quickly, then write it. "PAID".

It's very tremendous of mom's love for us. without needing payed back and do with a sincere heart. But sometimes, we always grouched to them when they need a little help. Wiseman absolutely respecting they parents. Because our mom and dad is a concrete example for a success person who raise us. So, we must respecting them, give an honor and do the best in every beat of our heart.


Motivation Stories

* How The Brain Works
* Blessing In Disguise
* The Power Of Love
* Do Not Fear, Do Not Regret
* Positive and Negative Words
* 9 Tips Keep In Attachment Loyalty
* Footprints In Sand
* Wealth Success and Love
* Mom's Love
* Love Love Love Love
* Run Till The Finish Line

Poems

* To Be Your Nails at Your Fingers
* O Girls
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Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Wealth, Success and Love




Once upon a time, there is a lady come-back at home from the journey outside. She see three bearded men that were sat in front her home yard. The lady doesn't know that strangers.

She talk to them gently with her characteristic smile, "I don't know who you are, but i believe you are nice starve men. Come in, i have some food to eat".

The bearded men asking her back, "Did your husband back at home ?".

The lady answer, "No, he didn't. He is not at home".

"O, i see. We don't want to come in. We must wait your husband back", The men said.

At the nightfall, when the family gathering around, the wife talk all what was happened. The husband confusedly at the beginning for all what was happened. Then he talk to her wife; "Tell them, i was back, and they are welcome to enjoy the dinner".

The lady out then to invite them to enjoy the dinner.

"Sorry, we can not going in together", The men said almost together.

"Why ?", the lady asked them in surprising.

One of them say, "His name is Wealth", he said in refer to a bearded man beside, "And His name is Success", he said with hold the shoulder of the other bearded man beside him. And my name is Love.
Now, ask your husband, "Who may to going in at the house between us ?".

The lady back to her house and telling about the man's command. The husband suprised, "Ouw...it so exciting. Ok, you must take The Wealth get in. I want this house full of richness."

His wife disagree, she's asking, "Honey, why we not invite The Success ? It seem that we need him to help our harvest field succed."

While they are talking, they son hear the conversation. And he propose them who could be get in the house, "It's more better for us to invite The Love come in to our house. Our house would be so comfortable and filled of warm and love."

The husband and wife are agree they son chosen. "Alright, invite The Love in. And tonight, The Love will be our dinner friend."
The lady going out then ask to the three men, "Whose name's 'LOVE' between you are ? Please, come in. You are my guest tonight."

The Love is stand up and walk into the house. Hoho..in fact, the other bearded men both are joining in with him. It feel seem strange, the lady asking to The Wealth and The Success.

"I'm only invite The Love, why you both joining in ?"

The men both answered together, "If you invite The Wealth or The Success, the other else will stay outside. However, you invite The Love, So, wherever The Love go, we will always follow him together. Where is be The Love , there is be The Wealth and The Success. That you should to know, truly, we both are blind. And only The Love who can see. Only him who can bring us to the good way. So, we need his leadership, when we through our whole life."

What a nice story, isn't it ?


Motivation Stories

* How The Brain Works
* Blessing In Disguise
* The Power Of Love
* Do Not Fear, Do Not Regret
* Positive and Negative Words
* 9 Tips Keep In Attachment Loyalty
* Footprints In Sand
* Mom's Love
* Love Love Love Love
* Run Till The Finish Line

Poems

* To Be Your Nails at Your Fingers
* O Girls
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Footprints in the sand



Footprints in the Sand

One night i dreamed i was walking along the beach with the Lord. Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky. In each scene i noticed footprints in the sand. Sometimes there were two sets of footprints, other times there were one set of footprints.

This bothered me because i noticed that during the low periods of my life, when i was suffering from anguish, sorrow or defeat, i could see only one set of footprints.

So i said to the Lord, “You promised me Lord, that if i followed you, you would walk with me always. But i have noticed that during the most trying periods of my life there have only been one set of footprints in the sand. Why, when i needed you most, you have not been there for me?”

The Lord replied, “The times when you have seen only one set footprints in the sand, is when i carried you.”



Motivation Stories

* How The Brain Works
* Blessing In Disguise
* The Power Of Love
* Do Not Fear, Do Not Regret
* Positive and Negative Words
* 9 Tips Keep In Attachment Loyalty
* Wealth Success and Love
* Mom's Love
* Love Love Love Love
* Run Till The Finish Line

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* To Be Your Nails at Your Fingers
* O Girls Read more/selengkapnya...

Sunday, August 17, 2008

9 Tips Keep In Attachment (Loyalty)

It's so hard to keep our faith for our beloved. That so much things to do to stay in happiness relationship (build on loyalty). Love is main capital or basic capital for husband and wife. But just with love purely, the relation will never growing up. You must have loyal commitment to your love. So, the love will durable along the time.

How to keep your faith or loyalty to your beloved..?

1. Selfless

The thing you must realize to love your beloved is "ingenuously giving". Love is sincerity heart's. It's not proper for your self-seeking. For example, don't you ever "loving in" then will get a profound interest back. Or you wish your beloved will be never make a mistake. All of that just hurt yourself. Remember, to love, it's mean "only giving" and don't ever expect "giving it back". Coz, you will be loved when you are loving in sincerity. Expecting ? From The Selfless, you will keep in faith or loyalty. And you would absolutely bring a happiness for your beloved.


2. Don't Too Much Demanded

Don't desecrate your heart and love with so many demanding. In the other way, you must learn always give the best with your love for another person, including your beloved one. Only with the right love, all of it could be materialized. In this step, it will bring you to stay in faith and loyalty. Exactly, you will win the positive result for the relation.
Too much demanding just bring you in the loaves and fishes at the end without maturely relationship. Moreover, you might be broke your relationship. Don't you know when it all happened your faith and loyal would be fade away? Don't too much demanding. In order that, you will keep in faith and loyal to your love and your relationship both.


3. Don't Being Afraid Disappointed

It might be hard to do. Usually, avoid from being disappointed and always want to be happy. That's no room in they heart to feel disappointed or dolour. Whereas, life have so many sides for us to inspired. Because of that, if you want keep in faith and loyal to your love, don't be affraid to disappointed..!! Not at all the personality growth come from success or happiness. Sometimes, you must feel being disappointed effect from other person, include your beloved one. It's very possible that always be a misunderstanding, quarrel or tiff and definitely will make your heart break. But, don't be afraid. You could maturing yourself from the flesh wounds like this.
If you able to face the hard circumstances, you will keep in faith to your beloved. The Love that will confort you from the wound's scratch. The love that will whooping on your life get up from the disappointment. So, don't daub your love when you are disappointing. Therefore, you will stay in loyalty to your love. This loyalty will toughening your love relation with your beloved.


4. Be A Good Consoler

The love's place is heart. When the heart broken, a certain person need an act of entertainment. So when your beloved heart broken, comfort them. Your love will actuating self to comfort and corroborate for your beloved.
All of that you can make it, if you have a crown of loyalty. You will never be a good consoler if your love not supplied with "loyalty when the sorrow ruled the roost". So, learn be a good consoler for your beloved. Start with love yourself in the right way and keep in a loyalty with your love. Believe it, your love relation will be in more very close or intimated in the act of entertainment circumstances.


5. Understand With All Your Heart


Human being doesn't always in easy condition. Your beloved one might be in hard condition and it's hard for you to understand it either. Might be they are in frustration condition, hopeless or failed. Understand them with all your heart, don't you instead make more worst they heart. For example, you complain why they failed or blame them. Out of this way.
Only when you keep your love faithful in loyalty, you would be accept and understand your beloved heart condition. With loyalty way, you will inspiring your beloved as soon as possible to rise up from the frustration. Everything, you can only do with your love, isn't it? Don't ever you leave your love even just a second, stay in your loyalty. That so. your beloved will more loving you because only you the comforter at the worst circumstances for your beloved.


6. Be Grateful For What Was Happened

Don't be grouching and curse out if you in failed, sorrow, or disappointed. Be grateful for every single days of your colorful life's experience . Be grateful for all was happened that make you growth up.
In this way, you will stay in loyalty to your love. Your confusion never make your soul small. In fact, you will more stronger to face everything happened. So, keep stay in your loyalty of love with gratitude for your life's experience. From here your relation will more as firm as a rock.


7. Be Autonomous In Mind And Action

The autonomy doesn't mean you must think yourself without see the another person. The autonomy mind and action mean sets out to be confidence to face for all what would happened. Thereby, you doesn't to wait for your beloved to do, when you must make a decision for an important moment. The autonomy will make you stay in faith and loyal to your beloved and yourself. You will more keep in faithfully that your love will bring a power in self to the positive thing at the sight of love and your relation.
Had a bast of autonomy in mind and action, so as to your loyalty of love will keep in growth. The relation of love will more stronger and autonomy.


8. Strength Hopefully

Love without hope is empty. Life never move on without hope as same as never focus to a better life. You will never can add love meaning bit by bit to materialize it. So, have a hope and keep struggle to reach out and to materialize it.
Thereby, you will stay in loyalty to your love; your hope is the motivator. Without a loyalty in love, you will never reach out your hopes, especially live in full affection and love with your beloved. So, always strength on and hopefully for better life in love and your life both.


9. Unite The Word And The Action

Love is more than words. Don't just say with a beautiful word. Unite the word and the action. So, the love's meaning will felt together with your beloved. The combination will be an evidence that you stay in a loyalty on your love. This loyalty make your relation together always in trust and honest. All because of you always loyalty and consistent to your word and act. Thereby, you both together will enjoy the loyalty with all your heart. Without dread for a falsehood what would happened.


Motivation Stories

* How The Brain Works
* Blessing In Disguise
* The Power Of Love
* Do Not Fear, Do Not Regret
* Positive and Negative Words
* Footprints In Sand
* Wealth Success and Love
* Mom's Love
* Love Love Love Love
* Run Till The Finish Line

Poems

* To Be Your Nails at Your Fingers
* O Girls
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Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Positive and Negative Words


One day, there is a man who always feel so unhappiness for his job, to family and almost for his whole life. Then he made a decision to run away from all the circumstances and stay at The Silence Temple. He taking out his sound with silent at that place, He only allowed to say just 2 words in every 5 years. In his mind, "This is perfect, no depression. No one can bother me. Only a quiet place.

He live at The Silence Temple for 5 years without saying any words. At the last 5th years his superior called him and say, "You have a right only 2 words to say. What you want to say?"

The man nodding his head and said, "Serving dish!!"

In the next 5 years at The Silence Temple without saying any words. His superior calling him back to the office and asking him what he want to say.

The man nodding his head and said, "Hard mattress!!"

In the 5 years later, his superior calling him back again and asking him again what you want to say.

The man said, "I'm quit!!"

His superior answered, "Well, it's not surprised for me. You do nothing at all, you only grouching since you've been here from the beginning."

Just for sharing..

This story remind me to a planter that might be silent grouched for whole years when he work at the plantation. "Evil boss!!", "Hard work!!", and for the last "I'm quit!!". It's so poor!! A person with a negative mentality never become a practically planter.

The negative words like "I can't do it", "Impossible", "What for?" and "What more?" will only selfdefeating, destroy and breakdown our to failed. It's not surprising the man with his negative thinking always looking for the reason for the possible things that he might be can do!

The positive words like "I can do it", "Not problem", "Why not?", and "We try" will motivating our spirit to finish all the jobs. The positive thinker always looking for the steps and way out to do what people can not do. The mind way like this is always amazing!

Proverbs 16:24 said, "Pleasant words are as a honeycomb, sweet to the mind and healing to the body."

The motivator words like "Do the best", "You can do it", "See you at the top of success", make us on fire and motivating us to do fast with a commitment.

All of us are looking for the happiness life. But a wise man said, "I knew it, if you chasing out for the happiness, It will only avoid you. But if you keep a focus for the family, friends, people needs, your job, and whatever you do for the best, you will reach out the happiness."

When the employees been valued, get a respected, and treated well with honor with they employer, they would be happy being work at the companies. But for a lot of employees whose hired with annual bonus and pay hike, for the truth, what is really they want are job satisfaction when they heard about the creditable like "Good", "Excellent", and "You are so Amazing". We should be pride when our boss telling us that we have so many contribution for the company aims.

The bible teach us about, if we uncared to the place we work or companies and whoever we serve, actually we have uncared to God in heaven. Colossians 3:23-24b "Whatever may be your task, work at it heartily (from the soul), as [something done] for the Lord and not for men, Knowing [with all certainty] that it is from the Lord [and not from men] that you will receive the inheritance which is your [real] reward."

That has a being bound between the happiness and gladness to serve, because we do the best for everything we need will all the heart.


Motivation Stories

* How The Brain Works
* Blessing In Disguise
* The Power Of Love
* Do Not Fear, Do Not Regret
* 9 Tips Keep In Attachment Loyalty
* Footprints In Sand
* Wealth Success and Love
* Mom's Love
* Love Love Love Love
* Run Till The Finish Line

Poems

* To Be Your Nails at Your Fingers
* O Girls
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Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Run Till The Finish Line


Have you ever see the marathon's athletes ?

In the marathon the runners are run with devoutness in concentration and determination. In they heart's, they have took a decision to run till the finish line. Because of that, they carried they steps through in focusing and resolvedly till the game over.

The marathon's athletes throwing up they burden including the unsuited dress that make slow the motion down. After they take the number, they prepared them self to participate in the marathon.

Not just throwing up they unsuited dress, but they choose and wearing they dress carefully. They choose the best shoes, the best sport uniform and they prepared the best thing for the marathon.

We must like the marathon's athlete, throwing up all the things that can make slow our move down. Prepared our heart and mind till we reach the finish line out.

Just For Sharing...

If we have got the right way of the positive attitude and paradigma of the marathon's athlete, that is no reason for you again to do all your job just an a half way or patchy. A job that just a half done is no better than doing nothing. You only amount to the same thing at the day. You have done nothing! Does all the reasons can turn the circumstances back or the job will be done? Definitely, "NO"!! Actually the job that not done is same as doing nothing, no matter what the reason it is.

DETERMINATION is the main key to finished the job. One time you fully of determination, you will find the way to finish all your job. No matter what the obstacles at your journey, that would not stopping you finishing it. All because your mind might be have decisioned, then you become concentrated and focused that all the job not only for finished but you want reach the best result for all.

That so many people's heart have been touched by the true story of the marathon's athlete who finished the race at the last position 40 years ago. He is John Stephen Akhwari from Tanzania. In 1968, he is joining in the Olympic game at Mexico City. Unfortunately, he falled down when the race was going on, his having sustained a wound and bruised in his leg. Apparently, he was the only one runner left at the race that night in the stadium. In the mean time, the medals had been presented, the flags lowered and the flame extinguished yet the stands were still full as he limped into the stadium one hour after the last hurrah and flag had been lowered and crossed the finish line.

It seems, John Stephen Akhwari is a Fully Disciplined, Dedicateful And Determination marathon's runner. Never give up though the bandage in his leg, he still move on, hobble with painful till the finish line. A few people left who looked him that still running are give him applause and thunderous sound when he reached out the finish line. It is the first time, an athlete finish his job at the last position with standing acclamation. This is the story full of Willpower, Persevering and Determination that made him be the winner with honour from the whole world.

Why he keep running on, He said; "My country didn't send me here to start the race - they sent me to finish the race".

That word not only be the inspiration but be the motivation for much people.


Motivation Stories

* How The Brain Works
* Blessing In Disguise
* The Power Of Love
* Do Not Fear, Do Not Regret
* Positive and Negative Words
* 9 Tips Keep In Attachment Loyalty
* Footprints In Sand
* Wealth Success and Love
* Mom's Love
* Love Love Love Love

Poems

* To Be Your Nails at Your Fingers
* O Girls
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